You may be too attractive and thus attractive to shallow people....this could be your appearance or finances or even how you portray yourself initially. I was previously a scientist...most people in the sciences are doing it to save the world so I met great people. After that I was dating....I usually told people about the bipolar in some way or another in dates 1-3, I was cautious but told them I heard voices for example but that it was cleared up. This is a great scare tactic for the shallow. Scare them early not when you need them. If they stay then they should be ok if you flip out later on to a point. It also helps to be average looking...unfortunately if you’re too good looking again you’ll attract the shallow. Now if I remember you were a doctor, that’s like catnip for the shallow. This is of course just my opinion....