(((((((((((K_J)))))))))))))))),

It is sad when people push our boundaries to the point where we feel the need to stop it. It's amazing how some people fell they have the right to almost own our every minute of our day & expect us to jump at there every needs. They are very selfish, self-centered people....& they take advantage expecially of kind, caring people like you.

There comes a point in your life however when it is necessary for you to stand up for what your needs are & how you are entitled to be treated & respected....those kind of people will push & push & take & take as long as you don't set your boundaries.....I have found however that those people tend not to respect you until you finally have to set your limits & boundaries & force the respect to happen.....even then, they try to make you feel guilty to continue seeing just how far they can push you & get away with it. Once you get the boundaries set & they understand that you deserve respect. It's sad that those people have to be forced to respect others, but for some reason, they just don't seem to get it on their own & think the whold world revolves around them....proably spoiled brats as children.

Take care of yourself.....you deserve the respect even if it's something you have to demand at times,
Debbie