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Originally Posted by ~Christina
You said you have talked to her about it many times ..... what does she say? How does she defend her lies?!
I’d call her out and honestly if she keeps doing it I’d let that relationship go. Who needs friends who lie? Yeah nobody.
Good luck  |
——she acknowledges that she constantly minimizes problems to keep people in a positive mindset and direction. I realize that having chronic pain herself creates a need to stay chill. I have a painful shoulder condition (that we will probably resolve w physical therapy), so I realize how much stress can increase levels of pain. She’s 78 and I may need to share more of my more stressful issues with you guys instead of her. Her bp was spiking during the run up to the huge gargantuan holiday dinner she hosts, so I ordered her to delegate everything, so she upped her dose of bp meds and did delegate most of it. Thanks everyone. You are really helping me get to the heart of this.