Wovengalaxy I can relate - I can hold onto shame for a riculously long time. Like 25 years lol. I had a weird thing with some guy before I knew my husband and we never spoke again. It was a random weird experience.

I have no idea what he thinks but last weekend he happened to pass me and my husband in the street and smiled and said "Hi". It was that simple. I would bet I had thought a lot more about what happened than he did.

I agree with other posters, it's been 4 years, it's okay to act like it never happened. Life is just weird and random sometimes.