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Originally Posted by LilyMop
I’m sure you’re right that most of the time asking about someone’s weekend is superficial. Sometimes though I sense people are fishing for more than that and sometimes people will make judgmental comments. That’s when I get uncomfortable. Sometimes that one question about my weekend opens the door to ask further questions. I’ve noticed that the people I feel most comfortable with don’t ask too many questions and information is just naturally shared over time.
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no matter where you go, and what groups you find yourself in, there will be some that will judge, make assumptions and look at you that way. Acceptance of this is foundational to being able to cope. It is what it is and the fact is if they are judgemental, more than likely they are not fully confident in themselves because most judgmental people tend to do so in order to make themselves feel superior. just let it be and be honest if you feel they are scrutinizing by saying so, that you are not comfortable talking about that or just dont' want to.