Now that everyone is an adult now and have our own lives,I am the one who wants or likes to have a soul connection with other family members.I tend to share more with my siblings.And crave the same from them.The golden child sibling sounds like she is having a superficial conversation with me.But the other one sibling is closer to me.She even apologized that she was the cause of my abuse back when we were children.She felt sorry for how I was forced to take care of her.She remembered her childhood and how my mom was an absent mom for her.She remembers how I fed her bathed her and such.Recently my golden child sibling is connecting on a deeper level.I think because her kids have developed a bond with me.But she never said sorry.But started to tell me more about what she did behind my back.Like how she destroyed my school projects.Wrote profanity in my notebook.tore pages of my text book.blackened my eraser with permanent marker.I got into trouble for them and I never new it was her.Now she started telling here and there.May be a confession??IDK.