Chiro, what will it take to get you mad enough to stand up for yourself? I know i project my own past onto your present, but darn it they would excuse you in a new york minute if you had a serious bf. Medical school doesnt "count". let that sink in. Also, do they only want you to appear for the pregnancy check? To prove to them and the rest of the old relatives that you havent gotten knocked up? Its a thing. Also, is your appearance just so they can say you showed up?

This is your time to be building a life for yourself. The fact that they dont understand or approve what youre doing doesnt relieve you of that responsibility. Dont end up pathetic like me, because you wasted this time hiding under their skirts and kowtowing to them. No one will give you credit for that. Be a man!