The psychologists and psychiatrists that I knew were never THAT interested in the lives of their patients once they left the office. I remember that one of them would relax or watch tv or socialize once off the clock. He really wasn't that interested in their clients lives, and he was a very good clinician. After work, he didn't want to have to deal with anything work related. That even included looking up patients. He kept his work life COMPLETELY SEPERATE from his hours off.