Ugh. Jersey, I am so sorry. Hugs, for you and your sis and that sweet baby.

If she does end up firing him, or just deciding not to work with him even if he does come through...one of the best things I did was meet with more than one attorney and then choose the one that seems like the best fit. Sometimes that means paying for a very expensive half-hour or hour of their time to consult with them, but in the long run it can pay off. I got valuable information from each of the attorneys I met with, and it was interesting to see where they converged and where they didn't.