I totally agree with you. Personally I don't understand the point of asking for help, it defeats the purpose. Luckily my T knows I will not call and doesn't make any such suggestions. Instead he always tries to get me to commit to not doing it for a set amount of time until I see him again. Ha! Same difference to me.

Your T probably just doesn't know which category you fall into yet. (Those that want to be stopped and those that don't)