I did it. I brought my dear H to T with me.
I think T was surprised to see us together in the waiting room. We've been discussing this for a while but the exact timing was left up to me and I had to wait until I was ready. Finally, I realized that ready may never happen so I just did it.
Now, just for clarification my H did not necessarily want to come with me. Talk therapy is not his cup of tea. But he did it for me. And, he didn't complain either.
Okay, so practically speaking it was weird because H sat in T's chair and T sat on the couch. Naturally, that left me sitting in the assprint. So H and I were facing each other. The session was fine and FLEW by. Actually, it was better than fine because I felt a certain love from H that I haven't felt in a while.
And, I only got slightly annoyed at T because he bent over backward to make H comfortable. He didn't want to scare him away. Why doesn't he worry about that with me? LOL
H will come with me about once a month or so as a "consultant" on my therapy. It's interesting. We'll see. Somehow I don't think that every single time will be wine and roses.
Peace