I think a member can decide what to share and what not to, so the full situation is rarely shared. I know for myself I don’t always share everything when posting.
As for advice given.... PC has always really been about support and sure loads of advice but the OP ultimately decides to pick and choose whatever “they “ feel is most important.
I have seen a lot of people especially newer members post there situations whatever that might be and get tons of responses but it’s like 101 questions in rapid fire and the OP just never responds and honestly I can’t blame them. Talk about being overwhelmed .
I feel members who are in a bad situation of any kind need a softer approach and maybe a simple question of “ what can I do to help? “
Anyway just my thoughts