I didn't read the posts as them worrying about it. It's positive that they're aware of their slightly more compulsive, obsessive behaviours. Also, they aren't checking what their T's are doing online, they are simply looking to see when they were last online. It's a connection thing. I couldn't care less about seeing when or whether my T was last online, but I can be compulsive, obsessive in other ways so I can relate. I suppose the question is, whether or not to offer advice/your opinion when no advice/opinion was asked for?