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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia2
His interaction style was very relational though but he has very clear, solid boundaries - something else I liked very much. He wouldn't let people mess with him and expressed very clearly when someone was going too far.
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Boundaries are integral to a relational style, another thing which is misunderstood about a relational approach. Relational work often seems to be misinterpreted as a cosy, cosy, fluffy love-in, but it is also about the clear and boundaried nature of where one ends and the other begins - and sometimes that stings.