If she knows, then she too has a secret!
We have our own pc's. It would be pretty obvious if there were any peeking, but it could happen.
A close friend of both of us, a psycho therapist, knows my secret. I guess I already said that in this post...
Anyway, I spent a few hours chatting with her yesterday afternoon. She thinks I am underestimating my wife and that she will be very accepting of the whole story. I hope so. I can feel it is sooner, not later.
I have no reason to involve my adult children. There is nothing in my appearance or behavior that is going to change. (With one tiny exception. I am going to get my ears pierced for my 50th birthday next Saturday! At least if the little Japanese restaurant has an ample supply of pre-piercing sake.)
A couple months ago this whole topic was heavy. Today, it is getting quite a bit lighter.
Again, so nice to make your aquaintance!!!
Do you have pictures you can, want to post? We have a place you can do so at
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PsychCentralFamily/ if you like...
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Wherever you go, there you are