The other thing that has changed a lot in just the past 10 years alone is the industry your room mate worked in. I do not know what part of it she worked in, but a lot of the players that used to be there are not there like they used to be too. It's a very different world now than it used to be back when she was 25. That industry has changed a lot over the past 25 years. It's very possible many of her mentors are gone now too.