For me I feel like this community has a lot of people that personally understand me and what I go through, it's a perfect place to talk about things more than others. I get what you mean about being a man and being expected to deal with it or stfu but guess what? To hell with what societies expectations are of me and no one can tell me how I can or can't feel or what I should be able to express. I spent years of my life never talking about anything, never allowing myself to feel anything but anger or frustration resulting in violent outbursts eventually. sometimes you just gotta talk about chit man; Just because you're a man doesn't mean you cant have any emotions to express yourself other than anger.