And now my cousin facebooked me and wants to go for coffee. I am sure I have my brother to thank for that. This is another cousin not affiliated with that family but they probably were all at the services.
Two points
1. She is coming into the city for an event she wants to go to, so she wants to get coffee with me after the event.
So that is exactly what I want to do after a long hard day, stay in the city and extend my long hard day. No as usual, this is what she wants to do.
2. I have gone to too many events because I felt guilty about it... I think the kindest thing is to just not respond. I just don't want to go. I don't wish her ill I just don't want to hang with her -- and she clearly doesn't get that message.
I can't bring myself to respond. I know they all think I am horrible but I just can't.
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