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However, I panic because on some level I feel like that means T will never get to know those parts of me who are still inside of me screaming for his attention. Intellectually, I know this isn't true but emotionally there is/are little girls inside who are screaming and saying, "WAIT A MINUTE, DONT LEAVE ME BEHIND! I feel as though I better hurry up and let him know all of me before my chance is gone and I am stuck inside myself forever.
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I know what it seems like, but what is really cool about being in group with him is that he'll actually get to know more of you this way, so don't rush. Just slow down because while you are in group, he will be able to meet your creative side, observe how you act on an interpersonal level with others besides him, see you in a differen't light. Take a deep breath. You have allowed T to see another 'you' when you brought your H to session. This didn't cause you to get stuck. It moved you forward. I bet group will do the same thing.
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