I don't believe you should be forced to do anything that you don't feel comfortable doing. If you don't want to do it, don't do it. He has to respect your boundaries! It is ok to dress sexy in private, but it is perfectly understandable why you'd not want to do that in public. Please let him know this and stand up for yourself. If he TRULY Loves You, he will understand! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Noname1987, your Family, your Friends, your Husband and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!