Your husband is an exibitionist only he is asking YOU to be the one he chooses to exhibit. Do NOT agree to participate in taking nude photos of yourself that he can post online. That gives him way too much power and can open you up to abuses you have no idea of or control of either. Please keep in mind that he is objectifying you when he does this with you.

This is what Dorothy Straton experienced where her boyfriend/husband objectified her and used her for his own ego. When she grew independent of him jeopordizing HIS control over her to feed HIS ego, he killed her then himself. Actually, Cher experienced this kind of dynamic with Sonny Bono who used her to build up his OWN ego. She described this as being his prisoner and being held hostage and this led to divorce. Sonny Bono did not RESPECT Cher, he used her for his own ego and even cheated on her.

Do not consider this something that involves love and respect either, that is NOT the case. Instead this is about HIS ego and desire for power. You have a right to YOUR boundaries and to say NO. Fearing that you cannot say no is a huge RED FLAG. There is a difference from having fun together and HIM having fun and ego building at YOUR EXPENSE.