I think it’s important to be sexually compatible. You two aren’t. He wants things you aren’t comfortable with.

I am not a prude but I won’t do things that could put me in danger.

I have to say that you can get arrested for having sex in public or exposing yourself to hotel staff. No man is worth getting arrest record. If my husband insists I do these things, we would have to get divorced because no way I’d jeopardize myself and lose my job or get in trouble with the law. No man is worth that for me