I agree with all the replies you already have and I would like to share something I know .Consider it as "better safe than sorry".I am not trying to scare you but what I tell you is true .I know a woman who went along with her husband's different style ,but was not comfortable.Husband wanted her to go online sites and wanted her to pretend she was looking for a steamy relationship and not married.She went along.She asked for males private part pics and sent hers at the request of her husband.She talked with the online males in a kinky way.More and more happened,while the husband guided and encouraged her.He said she was an amazing wife and he loves her .She thought this is what he needed to be happy and she complied.After 10 years of marriage he filed divorce on the grounds of guess what????adultery. He provided evidence of her online profile on this adult website and all the pics and communication between her and strangers.I am not saying this will happen to you,but it looks like you are being pushed into danger zone.