Thank you all so much for your input and support! I set up a counseling session for us this afternoon! I love him and want him to be happy and fulfilled, but there has to be limits. He was abused as a child and I don’t think he’s ever had the proper therapy to get him past that. I’m wondering if that’s playing a roll in his less than typical sexual interests. I’m afraid I made him sound like a controlling monster. He’s really a good man and we have a wonderful marriage. He just has this thing about other men seeing me and I really don’t understand it. And when I try to research it there’s not really any info that I can find at least. I find more exaggerated version like swingers etc, but he doesn’t seem to be wanting that. He just wants other guys to see me. I don’t know. So hoping counseling sheds more light on all of this. Thank you all again. I’ll update tomorrow which how it went!