Sorry you got the impression you did from my post. I can say for certain that it was not my intention to imply you were not compassionate. I am trying to interact yet I have not been sleeping well at all due to how toxic things have been in my life. I am not on any drugs either, just very emotionally and mentally tired.

The thing about dementia is that there are different kinds of dementia so not everyone exhibits the same symptoms. The attorney I had for my lawsuit from my negligent neighbor was in fact slowly declining into dementia. He managed to look and act the part, but in reality he was declining more and more when it came to being able to do tasks. People were nice to him the way you have expressed is happening with your room mate. I was at a disadvantage because I did not know or had any experience when it came to lawsuits. A therapist explained to me how there is a denial stage and that can last for a while and often others around the individual keep dismissing the red flags. You are at a disadvantage in that you did not know this woman when she was functioning and engaging in her life.

I can't say I would have lasted five months dealing with what you have shared. I would have said something right away if this person was eating the food I had gotten for myself. I don't think this woman understands your true financial state either, from what you described she is too wrapped up in herself. It's not your job to know what her issues are either. It's understandable you feel stressed about this environment you are dealing with. She is lucky you are not taking advantage of her or are a person that can harm her. I agree this is a tough situation for you and at this point you have managed pretty well considering and yes, you will need to keep looking for a way to get out of this arrangement and into something healthier for you. I am sorry ((Blanche)).