Magsanguis...

I honestly don't think ANYONE is to blame........I see life, its twists and turns, the people included and not included in it, as largely factors of personality, mine, and the person's personality I'm trying to decide whether to include or not......personality has GREAT deal of power over social situations, even ordering your food from a waitress and tipping or even whether one gets into a club....I believe personality plays even a greater cause of the scheme of things than even looks, money, even personality disorders less than OUR PERSONALITY QUIRKS...as you have nicely put it........