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Originally Posted by Noname1987
What I don’t get is how he can be ok with his friends seeing his wife. Wouldn’t they think less of him (and me!) if he let them do that?! Not saying it’s his choice. But just for argument’s sake, I would think it would damage a guys ego if his friends all got to see his wife, right?!
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You're right. In my opinion, it's not respectful of your privacy (yours alone and yours as a couple).
This is very different than if your husband wanted a threesome with you AND if you were comfortable with it. Instead, your husband wants to expose you sexually to other men, including his own friends.
To me, it's almost like prostituting you, but without the sex and without the fee. That may seem like too strong of a statement, but what I am getting at is it comes across as really disrespectful of both you and these other men he wants to expose you to. And yes, his friends would probably think less of both of you. He is wrong to believe that his friends would enjoy seeing you naked. They may think it's weird and they may even think it's disrespectful themselves.
I truly hope the counseling helps as it sounds like your marriage is good otherwise, from what you've said. Wishing you the best with this issue.