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Old Dec 12, 2019, 11:59 PM
LundiHvalursson LundiHvalursson is offline
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When I say empiricism, I mean using the pattern of history and past results as an indicator and/or influencer of present and future results. As in my other threads, I am 30 and still a virgin plus have never had a girlfriend. I have a 100% rejection rate and 100% failure in anything relating to dating. As in, not even in one instance has anything worked out up to now.

I wonder if my mindset of empiricism and focussing on all of my failures is part of the problem. However, I am obsessed with statistics and numerical facts, and the fact is that 100% of the time I have failed in dating and related areas. Based on this data, what is the actual probability of any success in the future? Sometimes it seems overoptimistic to expect better results given these numbers.

Statistics indicate as well that having Asperger's decreases dramatically the probability of success in dating, in addition to having a history of a 100% dating failure record at age 30.

I may be analysing these data numbers too closely like Microsoft Excel, but based on numerical statistics, how do I stop falling into depression like I did when I was around ages 23-25 when I did not talk to a woman in any social setting at all during those years? Am I basing my bad results too much on statistics and carrying these statistics into the future too much such that becomes like a self-fulfilling prophecy? Should I just stop thinking about empirical statistics and just try my best as if from a clean slate?
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