Maybe I do want you to challenge me more, at least on the eye contact thing. Not on the chair thing though.
I definitely didn't expect you to laugh when I told you about C bringing up anger and that I evaded it. I don't mind that you laughed though. You had a point.

I'm sorry I went behind your back. I'm sorry there are things I'm still hiding from you that I don't plan to share with you. I hope you can accept that. And I hope you can understand that there are things I discuss with you that I won't discuss with C or anyone else. I know you wish I'd talk to you about it, but can you please accept my reasons for keeping the matters separate?