I'm totally confused with what has happened. Toto -- did you have a relationship with your coworker that created awkwardness in the office after the relationship ended? Who dumped who?

The way you assassinate her character Toto makes me think she's the one who had strong boundaries that you ignored. And because she ignored you, this is why you label her crazy.

You'll need to be more clear with what exactly happened between you both.

Did you harass her at work? Is that why she complained to HR about you? I feel like there's a ton of information missing here.