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Old Dec 13, 2019, 02:43 PM
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You survived! And now you are pursuing something you really want. You know that ruminating on the past does not change anything. I too have been through a lot of trauma and while I'm nowhere near healed from it all, I try to not let the past influence my future. Be the person you want to be or at least pretend to be. I know it doesn't really help but, the pain really does get better. Or rather, we learn to grow in spite of it.

Try to think of yourself as a WINNER! rather than a loser.
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Thanks for this!
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