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Old Dec 13, 2019, 06:03 PM
LundiHvalursson LundiHvalursson is offline
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
When you say 100% failure rate do you mean that failing is not getting a date or having a GF? Is there a standard for not failing? Like having a girl talk to you in conversation and not immediately rejecting you? Or agreeing to a date and canceling? Or maybe an online communication that doesnt pan out? I am just curious.
I define "failure" as a couple things, viz. not having a successful first date, and not having a girlfriend. Whilst I could call failure as not getting a date at all, in very rare circumstances I have, e.g. from 2016-2019 I have averaged only one date per year, but a first date means nothing if it leads to nowhere.

I suppose that I could regard failure as not having a conversation without rejection, but usually the conversation breaks down in a few minutes. I rarely ask women out in the first place, since it always feels awkward and counter-intuitive to me. But if I did consider it a failure, I do fail in conversations as well.
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