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Old Dec 13, 2019, 09:31 PM
Northerna Northerna is offline
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Member Since: Dec 2019
Location: Ontario, Canada
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I am at the point where I am questioning if my relationship is even worth fighting for anymore. At what point does one call it?

Feels like no matter what I do it is never good enough. He doesnt listen, is incapable of seeing my point of view or refuses to see it. He speaks to me in such a way that I feel guilty and shamed. I feel beaten down and am constantly trying to fight my way back up.

He wants me to change but has has unrealistic expectations that seem to have gotten even harder to reach each year but is unwilling to change his expectations. I have found myself not caring to try anymore and feel so alone with no one to talk to that has an unbiased opinion or advice on how to move forward or things I can try to get through to him.

Our almost 2 year old boy complicates my decision on whether I stay or go coming from a broken family as I cannot be with out him and I have a feeling if we ended things he would make it a very long and difficult process. Do I sacrifice my happiness and stay in a marriage where I am no longer happy? Or do I caall it and prepare myself for the long journey ahead I can predict would happen?
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