I first came here to PC because of my loneliness. Mental illness can really make us feel isolated. I also have no friends and no partner. My parents live in a different part of the country, and the rest of my family splintered off a very long time ago. I've done volunteer work, meetups, political events, and the like. I'm also exploring faith groups. The most important think is to make yourself keep going out there even if it feels hopeless. You'll eventually find the right fit. It's also important to take the time to just be on your own to reset your mind, instead of just focusing on how lonely you are. I know first-hand how hard that is. When we feel pain, it's impossible to ignore, and ignoring it only makes it stronger. Finding other things to focus on, and reminding myself that so very many other people are feeling the exact same way, has helped me a lot. Pain is part of the shared human experience. I'm still in the same situation but feel more comfortable that I'm taking the needed steps to really change my life. Support groups might help you if you have one near where you live. Some people at your workplace might be open to friendships, as whatdoesitmean said.