Well when it comes to dating, if you tend to have poor boundaries it’s important to date a long time without physical intimacy, well maybe hold hands but no sex or heavy making out.

Until you two are committed and serious. If a man is serious about you, he’d wait. Keep your dating outside of each other houses: parks, cafes, museums, restaurants etc

If he pushes for sex or you don’t feel it’s serious or you two aren’t in love, then you move on. Don’t continue dating. Most certainly don’t sleep with him to make relationship more serious. It doesn’t work this way.

Avoid alcohol if it makes you irrational.

Look for men in a higher quality circles. Hobby groups mutual friends, if using dating sites, avoid hook up sites and free sites. If a man talks about sex early on, he is not the one. Move on.