Yes, it sounds like you have done as much as you can…like you said, it is up to her to decide if she wants to quit.

I am in recovery, have people who are close to me in recovery and some who are actively drinking. It is extremely difficult to watch somebody destroy their life with booze. I wish I had an answer for you, but I don’t. The most important thing for me is to remember to take care of myself, don’t take on the responsibility of others problems…and, try to patiently wait for my loved ones to decide to get sober.

Keep doing what you are doing…I hope it works out for the best.