You are not crazy (he makes you think you are crazy) There are a lot of things going on and you need to get out there. Asap...I had a kidney stone too...was treated the same way as you, so I know what you are going through. I also had major knee surgery and my kids were told that I am a liar because I shouldn't have needed crutches and I am faking the severity of my condition. Listen, my point is, it will never get better, only worse and worse. Get away from him and things will start to turn around. You are a strong person for reaching out for help. Please let me know if you need anything.