No I don’t consider myself a people pleaser. I used to be when I started my job 2 years ago. I’d say yes to everything they asked. Now I’m the complete opposite and I have no problem saying no. There’s this one coworker I do stuff for just because he’s an incompetent jerk who doesn’t understand anything and I hate talking to people so I just help him out. But yeah I can say no to family gatherings and basically everything. I just say I’m sorry I can’t make it.