I agree with my friend's posts; she won't decide to get better until she sees for herself what she is doing, and realizes she needs help.
Alanon is a great idea because you will meet others who have family members who use. Could be parents, children, spouses, siblings, the list goes on. They can recommend reading to learn more about managing your situation. Best Wishes to you.
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