Devastating is Tesach's Disease or severe brain damage. Disappointment I could understand. Your overreaction bemuses me. I wanted a girl very badly. I only had one child, and yes she was a girl, a girly girl, pink and purple, sparkles, Barbies and tiaras. I was mystified because I'm a practical scientist, but I went along for the ride. If she had been a boy, however, I'd have gotten over my girl wish in about half a second. You may want to seek counseling about your obsession with having a girl BEFORE your little boy is born. He has the right to grow up as a boy and not in the image you would create for him.