@Noname1987 I hope you are OK. I think the community here is just concerned over the potential ramifications of this fetish of your husband's. And according to some of the stories, there is cause for real concern. I hope you get the counseling you need, perhaps just for yourself alone, to help you sort through your feelings and thoughts on all this. I do think it's very concerning that your husband jokingly said he would pay that guy for his auto services by you flashing him. He is not showing respect towards you by saying something like that (ie. treating you almost like a prostitute, but without the sex), and that is concerning. I worry for your safety, your privacy, and your own sense of self-respect and self-worth. There are many what if's in this situation. It's up to you to determine what is best for you, but the community is definitely expressing concern for you.