Many of us here do not tell things about ourselves prematurely because people just plain dont understand. Many of us are on these forums to be around people who do.
So there are two simple things to do: Dont say you are a virgin so soon.Sorry guys, many men care so little about pleasing a women that many would benefit from seeking advice about thatfrom experienced men and women , and reading about it first.
You are so smart that it is just astonishing that you are beating yourself up for being smart, not carrying an STD you cant get rid of which many people are, or being a predatory or superficial man.
Wow, applaud yourself for being what you are. Just go about this in a different way. Write a singles ad, showing how very,very intelligent you are. Find someone who takes the time to really know you. Ask a friend to have your back and mentor you .Please stop blurting out that you are a virgin.
ITS NOT A BAD THING. I know men who could use that to get sex.. The woman: Ill teach you. YES!