I agree with Sarasweets and i said the same thing early in this thread.

OP and her husband need to look for willing participants who give consent, not get people ambushed. But OP said that we shouldn’t get hung up on “accidental” part as ultimate goal is to get willing friends involved plus her husband thinks every man is just happy to see any women naked (incorrect).

My opinion still stands that this stuff with unwilling or ambushed participants could get police involved. And exposing oneself could get a person on a sex offender list forever.

I wonder how much of his thrill is actually because these other people are unsuspecting observers rather than informed participants. And how much of his thrill is due to him seeing his wife and these unsuspecting men humiliated?