Although this is a serious topic, thanks StreetcarBlanche for putting it into perspective, very funny! Would love to send to some of my relatives who think it's all about cost of presents, outdoing each other, being hypocritical. Forget it!!

Was originally spending Christmas alone, but now elderly mother and I are together. Food from a good store (M&S), getting up when we like. She's requested a jumbo crossword puzzle to get our teeth into.

Wishing you all peace during this time of over-eating, drinking too much, family arguments, road rage, supermarket rage and all the other joys!!

Seriously, take care. I'll be on here over the festive season. Yes, some of us can feel sad we're not included in festivities for a variety of reasons. Others welcome a time of reflection, to escape the pressures of daily life. Whatever the reason try to gain some positives from knowing you have support.