so this is all good with "Two young kids" in the house.

priorities.

again. while we babble on about what her decision should be, and if the conditions are right or wrong, I again state it boils down to 2 choices:
agree to participate or opt out.

when I went back to the original post I noticed there are Two young kids in the mix. to me this would be the answer to my question. why would you subject them to this behavior. period.

but hey what do I know.