the man involved if she bends over in the bar, mentioned elsewhere,is not consenting either. Because he is there to 'pick up women' is not a valid reason to involve him in the husband' games. 'Pick up women' is no more sleazy than what the husband wants.

If the husband wants his fantasy then he should find people who are willing to play along not abuse people by involving them as playthings for his to enjoy his power over people, or over men, which is what it is all about