Well, my T should have a Sherlock Holmes hat and a big magnifying glass because he examines every bit of body language and expression! LOL
He is so attuned to me that he often knows when I am dissociating before I do, if that's possible.
I have a good poker face but I cannot keep up with the conversation when I check out and he is immediately aware of it. Sometimes he keeps talking. Occasionally I can tell he tries to push me to come back by calling me on it. I told him in no uncertain terms that does not work. Sometimes he softly asks me what I need. Recently, he explained his frustration with my dissociation. He said that he is trying to be with me but I go to such a "dense" place that he can't tell how to help me. sigh.
Peace.
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