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Originally Posted by luvyrself
Many of us here do not tell things about ourselves prematurely because people just plain dont understand. Many of us are on these forums to be around people who do.
So there are two simple things to do: Dont say you are a virgin so soon.Sorry guys, many men care so little about pleasing a women that many would benefit from seeking advice about thatfrom experienced men and women , and reading about it first.
You are so smart that it is just astonishing that you are beating yourself up for being smart, not carrying an STD you cant get rid of which many people are, or being a predatory or superficial man.
Wow, applaud yourself for being what you are. Just go about this in a different way. Write a singles ad, showing how very,very intelligent you are. Find someone who takes the time to really know you. Ask a friend to have your back and mentor you .Please stop blurting out that you are a virgin.
ITS NOT A BAD THING. I know men who could use that to get sex.. The woman: Ill teach you. YES!
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Recently, as in when I turned 30 in October, I decided to not answer anyone's questions about my sex life. I actually have to make this decision for the future, because there absolutely will be people who will ask me about it. Just last week for example I was asked, but declined to answer.
I suppose that I never really considered myself smart. It may be that I used to hang out with people who got straight A's at the bare minimum, people who went to universities such as Stanford, Berkeley, MIT, Columbia, Cambridge, Oxford, LSE, etc. So compared to them I am just average at the most.
Here people like to judge people based on which university they attended. I live ten minutes from UCSF (only offers the medicine degree and postgraduate degrees), one hour from Stanford and half an hour from UC Berkeley. People like me who attended none of the above are considered as below average.
I would be flattered if a woman told me that she would "teach" me. I have often received the opposite comments, i.e. the "Ew virgin, go home!" attitude.
Regarding the actual act itself, when I get to that point, I would not mind at all helping her orgasm multiple times even if I do not at all. Apologies if that was too much information.
The one positive that I am proud of is that I have zero STIs. It is impossible by definition given that I have zero sexual experience full stop. For some reason, a lot of people here think that having STIs makes one a good person in popular culture. Just like how someone who got drafted as a soldier into some war comes home with no legs, people praise him/her for their physical toughness. Someone with for example chlamidiya or gonorrhoea is considered a "battle-hardened warrior" or some other weird stuff.