Well, @bpfighter250, if You're not feeling heard, that is CERTAINLY something that needs to be brought up with Him if he's serious aboout your Relationship. How are things going with Him aside from this? Are You happy with him? Does He make you feel Safe and Loved? These are all things you should consider in my opinion before making a decision, if you want! Perhaps you can bring up Couple Counselling to him if he's willing, although from what You wrote He seems like he doesn't see any problems with how things are going right now. But if You're feeling unhappy, there IS a problem! Definitely talk to him about ALL of this and tell Him that you're SERIOUS about this! Hopefully He will understand and you'll BOTH be able to talk it through! Keep us updated and let us know how things turn out, ok? Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @bpfighter250, Your Family, Your Friends, Your Boyfriend and ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK, MY, DEAR, AWESOME, KIND, SWEET AND WONDERFUL FRIEND?!