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Default Dec 20, 2019 at 11:44 AM
 
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Originally Posted by IrisBloom View Post
Looking from another angle...I've had the feeling "I've found my tribe" before. To me it's more about finding where you belong rather than shutting others out.

You make a good point here. Most of us, myself included, want to feel like we belong. I think it all depends greatly on the tribe itself, and whether it's a group of kind and open minded people, open to change, or rigid and exclusive.

Lots of people benefit greatly from having a group of friends with one or two things in common that gets together regularly. I've been one of those people myself.

I guess, and I'm only speaking for myself, I'm talking about a different type of group. The most notable difference being in the name as Fuzzy mentioned "clique" "Tribe" often starts out on the surface as being a group of friends with a common goal, but quickly turns into a "clique" with little room for change,and critical thought....that's not a good thing for anyone in my humble opinion.
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